You told me Ashley was just an idiot and I shouldn't react to it and give her any attention. You told me I need to be nicer to you so you didn't feel like you did something wrong, when I said I wasn't even angry with you, I was just worried and upset. And just now you told me not to try to have a conversation with Doodle while he's "working through feelings stuff," like that's not literally always and like I'm not also working through a lot of things, and that his feelings are worse than mine, when you just admitted you don't actually understand how I feel.