Not an act in his case, but disarming for sure. I was so sure we'd be stuck in a cycle of overly chaste flirting forever, then he busts out asking me to take a drink from him.

Sure there's a fair amount of that here, but usually they're masochists. Why are there so many of those around, by the way? Or do I just attract them? [ For obvious reasons. Clearly she's drunk enough by now, not that she's slowing down any. ] What's a lady have to do to get shoved around once in a while?