It is better to have them gone. Yvette gave me the points because I was complaining about not being able to eat, and then she wouldn't take them back. I'll have to find a way to make it up to her. [ 4,000 points is a lot! ]

That sounds nice. I'll bet you could work with sIV and their self-care activity if you wanted more points for it. Or LiliS, I'm sure they have something that would coordinate well.