I appreciate you making that clear. Some people here act like they have boundaries like that, but then get offended the moment I so much as look at them. I've been trying to err on the side of caution, because I've been condemned for things out of my control one too many times.

I like buckles! [ because they have shinies on them. ] How about something overly complicated, so he may end up saying fuck it and grabbing a knife to simply cut through it.