It's none of your business whether we decide to force our unitmates out of our dorm for weeks until they lose themselves! Do you not even see that's the problem?! Someone got hurt, so it's perfectly reasonable for you to go tell other people what you think they should do in their own homes, even if it means you're telling them to perform a dedicated campaign to literally erase one of the few people they're meant to count on from existence in the most agonizing way possible?

The fact that you think anything is your business if there's a "right thing to do" is the dangerous part. If you want to interpret that as a threat, interpret it as a threat. I'm just telling you how I see it, so we're clear. Unlike you, I don't decide how things are without even speaking to the people involved.