It wasn't that simple or clean. He insisted that wasn't actually what he meant, and I explained a lot of my thoughts, and asked him how he approached things, and it seemed like maybe we were making progress. But he still kept saying other things that sounded like he didn't understand me at all, and didn't really care to learn...
Eventually, he asked me what I was doing to change, and I told him some things, and he thought they all sounded good. But then I asked him what he was doing to show me he did care, and that he didn't think of me that way... and that's when he just told me it wasn't going to work.
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[shakes her head]
It wasn't that simple or clean. He insisted that wasn't actually what he meant, and I explained a lot of my thoughts, and asked him how he approached things, and it seemed like maybe we were making progress. But he still kept saying other things that sounded like he didn't understand me at all, and didn't really care to learn...
Eventually, he asked me what I was doing to change, and I told him some things, and he thought they all sounded good. But then I asked him what he was doing to show me he did care, and that he didn't think of me that way... and that's when he just told me it wasn't going to work.