And in any case, it's a pain to have a wedding! There's a lot of cost attached to it, and it takes so long to prepare for, and the little minutiae build up to create such a pressure for a performance, and for what! Days and days of fretting over the size of the waist and how the bodice would fit, of looking good enough for people so they don't criticize, of enduring conversations like "so when will you have children" and gossip like that! People get angry having to move their own schedule around but just what can be done about it, since it's a once in a lifetime event! Of course, everyone has to be invited or it's a slight against them even if you don't like them! Then they have to show up or it's a sight against you! A church full of people who will judge you and complain about whatever catering there is or isn't, as if it's in your control! People getting drunk before it's even started! People indulging themselves, barely able to contain themselves even when there's still a whole ceremony to go through!
The bachelorette party! The bridal shower! The rehearsals! The photoshoots! Money and time sinks, all just excuses for everyone else to get drunk and live off of the absurd amount of resources spent that they don't have to contribute to at all! And then, standing at the front and waiting and waiting with everyone's eyes on you! For what! Just to be left there and then pitied and laughed at!? Aaahh, I hate it so much!!
[ at some point he found a pillow to hit the ground underneath himself with, emphatic in his ?distress?anger? ]
Re: Lucifel
[ lifts his head, suddenly animated now ]
And in any case, it's a pain to have a wedding! There's a lot of cost attached to it, and it takes so long to prepare for, and the little minutiae build up to create such a pressure for a performance, and for what! Days and days of fretting over the size of the waist and how the bodice would fit, of looking good enough for people so they don't criticize, of enduring conversations like "so when will you have children" and gossip like that! People get angry having to move their own schedule around but just what can be done about it, since it's a once in a lifetime event! Of course, everyone has to be invited or it's a slight against them even if you don't like them! Then they have to show up or it's a sight against you! A church full of people who will judge you and complain about whatever catering there is or isn't, as if it's in your control! People getting drunk before it's even started! People indulging themselves, barely able to contain themselves even when there's still a whole ceremony to go through!
The bachelorette party! The bridal shower! The rehearsals! The photoshoots! Money and time sinks, all just excuses for everyone else to get drunk and live off of the absurd amount of resources spent that they don't have to contribute to at all! And then, standing at the front and waiting and waiting with everyone's eyes on you! For what! Just to be left there and then pitied and laughed at!? Aaahh, I hate it so much!!
[ at some point he found a pillow to hit the ground underneath himself with, emphatic in his ?distress?anger? ]