[sighs. but in that kind of fond way of like ilu but really.]

Maki... you're acting like you have a choice in that.

Let me clarify: you don't.

None of us had that choice. The only choice we have is how we approach it. And I never said it was just you, it takes two to have an argument. But you can't complain about people not understanding you when you're always playing the role of protector and caretaker and never letting someone else protect and caretake for you.